si ahli sihir buat perangai lagi..

mmg betul jangkaan aku...sampai2 je kat umah parents ikmal, mak mentua aku buat hal lagi...sebelum tu dia call suh ikmal teman kan dia pegi wedding ..alkisahnya my father inlaw was unwilling to go to the wedding..since dia ajak ikmal, kena la aku siapkan baju melayu kan..dah la nak kena buat laundry lagi...2 batch lak tu..nak kena jemur baju..lipat kain susun dlm almari..buat breakfasst...basuh pinggan..gila banyak kerja ok? and aku mmg serius penat...

lepas dah siap2 tu..jam pon dah pukul 4 lebih...aku pon tak lunch lagi..gila kebulur...masa on the way tu, ikmal singgah mcD , sbb tekak aku cam tak lalu nak makan nasik..tiba2 mak mentua aku call ckp yg tak jadi nak pegi ngan ikmal sbb sister inlaw aku nak pegi ngan dia..aku cam hangin gak..dah la last minute bagitau psl the wedding..menyusahkan aku nak kena siapkan baju melayu...pastu tiba2 sukati dia je nak cancel! gila hangin ok??

lepas makan tu...masa kat highway, dia call sekali lagi..ckp kenapa lambat sgt?? dia nak pegi kenduri cepat...(pulak dahh!!? bukan dia ckp nak pegi ngan akak ipar aku ke??) tau2 je dia letak tepon..
sampai umah dia, lagi la teruk..the next thing i know, she was yelling on top of her lung at my husband..and my husband was also yelling at his mother...(this is soooo awkward!!) my father inlaw? he was just sitting at the living room..lepas tu si ikmal terus nak balik..sampai luar aku pujuk ikmal " you tahu kan your mother mmg mcm tu..dia tu mmg menyakitkan hati...tapi she's your mother..sabar la.."
lepas aku pujuk tu, dia pi ikut his dad semayang kat masjid sekejap...agaknya nak sejukkan hati ler kot..balik tu tak tau la..agaknya dia ader slow talk ngan mak dia kot..by night ahli sihir dh back to normal..

aku mmg surrender..mmg tak boleh handle mak mentua aku..mmg aku takkan tahu apa ada dlm kepala dia..i do not hate my mother in law although she has tested my patience countlessly..but sometimes it hurts so much when she said things that she shouldn't has..she will apologize..tapi for me mcm minta maaf yg tidak ikhlas since she will keep on hurting people's feelings after that..
I had a heart to heart talked with her before masa raya last year..i told her..i was raised differently..from where i came from, we do not yell at each other..so i'm not used to her kind of enviroment..and yet nothing changes..she will still yells whenever she wants to..:p but i don't blame her totally..i guess she must have living like that all her life..old habits die hard, right..so be it!